Using an affair as an escape rather than fixing problems at home.
In many cases, the "I don't know" is a result of several internal factors: Compartmentalization They separate their "real life" from the affair. This allows them to act without thinking of consequences. When the walls come down, they can't bridge the two worlds. Avoidance of Shame
A neutral third party can help peel back the layers of "I don't know."
Using an affair as an escape rather than fixing problems at home.
In many cases, the "I don't know" is a result of several internal factors: Compartmentalization They separate their "real life" from the affair. This allows them to act without thinking of consequences. When the walls come down, they can't bridge the two worlds. Avoidance of Shame
A neutral third party can help peel back the layers of "I don't know."