Self And Others: Object Relations Theory In Pra... Apr 2026

In therapy, Leo begins to recognize these "internal objects". He learns that Maya's lateness is an external event, not a reflection of his worth. By identifying the —someone who stays even when Leo is difficult—Leo begins to integrate his "split" world. He starts to see people (and himself) as "whole objects": complex mixes of good and bad who can be frustrated with him without leaving him.

In Leo’s mind, Maya isn't just Maya. She has become a "representation" of his . When he was a toddler, his primary caregiver was often physically present but emotionally "blank" or rejecting when he was distressed. To survive, Leo internalized this experience, creating a "blueprint" of a Rejecting Object (the unavailable caregiver) and a Devalued Self (the child who isn't worth staying for). 2. Splitting and Projection Self and Others: Object Relations Theory in Pra...

Leo starts acting cold and critical to "test" Maya. He asks, "Are you bored of this yet?" . This is : he is unconsciously pressuring Maya to feel the same rejection he feels inside. Eventually, Maya gets frustrated and snaps, "Maybe I am bored if you're going to be like this!" In therapy, Leo begins to recognize these "internal objects"

: Maya’s anger confirms Leo’s internal map. He thinks, "I knew it," and breaks up with her to regain a sense of "omnipotent" control over the inevitable abandonment. 4. The Path to Practice He starts to see people (and himself) as